Adoption
Facing an unexpected pregnancy and need help? Call or text 757-536-3068 to speak to our pregnancy counselor. Our services are free and confidential. You have options – and you are not alone!
When facing an unplanned pregnancy, your well-being and your child’s future are our top priorities. We’re here to help you navigate this challenging time with compassion, understanding, and expert guidance, always centered on what’s best for you and your baby.
Together, we can help you build a safe, secure plan, whether that means preparing for parenthood or exploring adoption. You remain in control of your decisions every step of the way, and final decisions about adoption are not made until after your baby is born. You do not need to be Catholic to access our services.
If you’re considering adoption, know that it is a thoughtful, loving decision that can bring joy and hope to families who are unable to conceive.
At CCEVA, we:
- Carefully screen and prepare adoptive families through an extensive home study process
- Provide ongoing training and support to adoptive families
- Stay involved after placement to ensure long-term support
We offer birth mothers:
- Free, confidential pregnancy support
- Help talking with family members
- Guidance in choosing an adoptive family
- Support at the hospital
- Post-adoption counseling and services
No matter where you are in your journey, we are here to walk alongside you with compassion, respect, and unwavering support.
Frequently Asked Questions
Can my child search for me someday if they choose to do so?
Yes. In the State of Virginia a child can search for their birth parents once they reach the age of 18. It is important that you keep your contact information current with Catholic Charities so that we can contact you at that time.
Can I write a letter to my child?
A letter is something that could be beneficial to your child. It is a way to let your child know what you were feeling during your pregnancy and the reason you make a plan of adoption. This is something that adoptive families treasure having from you for the child.
How can I be sure that my child will be well cared for?
There are standards that every adoptive family must meet which are set by both Catholic Charities and the State of Virginia. Families are thoroughly assessed before being approved for adoption and a counselor will make visits to the adoptive family after placement to ensure your child’s well being.
How much will my child know about me?
You will be asked to provide a social/medical history for the child. Depending on the type of adoption plan you choose the information given to the adoptive family will vary from non-identifying to identifying. This information will be provided to the child at age appropriate intervals.
Does the birth father need to be notified that I am pregnant and considering making an adoption plan?
Each situation is unique. This can be discussed with your counselor who will work with you in deciding how to properly address the birth father’s rights.
How will I feel after I place my child for adoption?
Experiences and emotions vary from parent to parent, but placing a child for adoption is never an easy decision for anyone. These emotions can vary from grief, loss, and sadness in placing your child for adoption to joy, contentment, and happiness at seeing your child with their adoptive family.
What if I change my mind after my baby is born?
Even after months of certainty and preparing, once your baby is born, you might change your mind. In Virginia the law allows between 7 and 10 days to revoke your decision depending on the age of the child.
Do I have to be Catholic to contact Catholic Charities?
No, at Catholic Charities we work with individuals from various ages, religions, and ethnic groups.
If I am undecided about adoption can I still contact Catholic Charities?
At Catholic Charities you do not have to worry that you will be pressured to choose adoption. Our counselors are committed to helping you figure out what is right for you and giving you the support you need to make the decision that is right for you.
What is the role of an adoption agency?
Agencies are staffed with ethical, knowledgeable professionals who bring expertise to adoption counseling and support. Agencies offer free support services and counseling to you before, during, and after an adoption decision is made.
Meet the Families
Our agency families are all unique, loving and face fertility challenges that prevent them from conceiving. Please take a minute to meet our waiting families.
Text, call or email our Adoption Specialist at (757)-536-3068, adoptionservices@cceva.org
Adoption Program Services
We serve all of Southeastern Virginia and offer the following:
- Domestic adoption
- Parental placement adoption
- Independent/Kinship adoption
- Search & disclosure services
- Adoptive couple education
- Home studies
- Coordination of adoptive family and birth family meetings
- Child placement
- Post placement supervision
- Adoption finalization
- Adoption follow up support
- Pregnancy counseling for birth parents
- Court reports for finalization
- Agency collaboration based on family needs
Text or Call 757-536-3068
or email adoptionservices@cceva.org
Click below to make an online payment for your adoption service.
Post Adoption Services
Our post adoption specialists offer ongoing training, individualized case management, advocacy, service coordination, school advocacy, and access to tools and resources to help families sustain lasting adoptive placements. Our post adoption services are free and confidential.
Call 757-456-2366 or email adoptionservices@cceva.org
